To support the need for alignment in all aspects of life, business and relationships, we discovered what worked. In many ways what we found are the traits of great leadership - not necessarily in a business sense - but in how we lead ourselves.
The Connectors run from Identity through to Purpose (see Principle 5) touching Relate, Do and External along the way. Each of the 5 Connector components have a light side and a ‘flipped’, darker side. Like threads in a rope, they work together - positively or negatively.
Mastering each one of these components strengthens and supports the framework, enabling clarity and structure.
The first component we’ll consider is that of HOPE.
The ‘flip’ side of this is FEAR.
The next component we’ll consider is that of KINDNESS.
The ‘flip’ side of this is JUDGEMENT.
This is followed by CHOICE.
The ‘flip’ side of this is CONTROL.
Next, we consider GIFTS.
The ‘flip’ side of this is HELPLESS.
Finally, there is PASSION.
The ‘flip’ side of this is EMPTY.